Life in today's world has become quite uncertain. There are too many means of modes of transport, more population, less jobs, too much stress. Above all we know that death is inevitable, no one can stop it. Yet, when it comes, the loss is at times a big blow to the near and dear ones. What we normally say that time alone is the healing factor, that some people do manage to overcome their loss and get on with their lives, but some go into such depression, it is for them that there are some simple ways that can help you to cope with your grief.
You may experience all kinds of difficult and unexpected emotions, from
shock or anger to disbelief, guilt, and profound sadness. The pain of
grief can also disrupt your physical health, making it difficult to
sleep, eat, or even think straight. These are normal reactions to
significant loss. But while there is no right or wrong way to grieve,
there are healthy ways to cope with the pain that, in time, can ease
your sadness and help you come to terms with your loss, find new
meaning, and move on with your life.
Grief is a natural response to loss. It’s the emotional suffering you
feel when something or someone you love is taken away. The more
significant the loss, the more intense your grief will be. You may
associate grieving with the death of a loved one—which is often the
cause of the most intense type of grief—but any loss can cause grief,
including:
death
divorce
loss of a job
miscarriage
retirement
loss of a pet
some serious illness and so on.
Some people grieve over moving away from a place to a new home or to a new job. Some grieve over losing their friends from school or college when they move to a new place or job.
Grieving is a highly individual experience; there’s no right or wrong
way to grieve. How you grieve depends on many factors, including your
personality and coping style, your life experience, your faith, and how
significant the loss was to you.
Inevitably, the grieving process takes time. Healing happens gradually; it can’t be forced or hurried—and there is no “normal” timetable for grieving. Some
people start to feel better in weeks or months. For others, the
grieving process is measured in years. Whatever your grief experience,
it’s important to be patient with yourself and allow the process to
naturally unfold.
However, here are a few healthy ways you can cope with your loss to move on with your life.
1. Build a support system: When you are grieving,
you may feel that nobody understands how you feel and would want to
isolate yourself. Do not allow yourself to withdraw into a shell and
instead build a support system of friends and family who you trust. You
could also visit a counselor who is trained to deal with such
situations. Joining a support group can also help.
2. Face your grief: Not allowing yourself to grieve
can do more harm than good. You can suppress your grief for a short time
but you cannot avoid it forever. The longer you avoid facing it, the
more difficult it will be. Suppressing grief can also lead to a number
of health problems such as depression, substance abuse and anxiety.
3. Look after your health: When grieving for the
loss of a loved one, you may not feel hungry and may want to simply lie
in bed all day. But you must instead get out, eat right and exercise
regularly. When the body is healthy, you not only feel better physically
but also emotionally. Avoid turning to alcohol and drugs to lift your
mood.
4. Express yourself: Bottling up your emotions is
never a good idea. However, sometimes talking about how you feel can be
difficult. In such situations, look for alternate means of expressing
yourself. For examples, you could try painting or start a scrapbook.
5. Look out for grief triggers: What makes coping
with the loss of a loved one difficult is the fact that you share a
number of life events with them. Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays and
festive occasions can bring back memories of the person and overwhelm
you. To successfully heal, you must plan ahead for events like this that
will trigger grief. Do not allow yourself to be alone at such times.
6. Seek professional help: Sometimes, when you are
dealing with the loss of a loved one, you find yourself sinking into
depression or find it difficult to resume your normal lifestyle. It is a
good idea to consult a mental health practitioner or counselor.
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