Wednesday, May 25, 2005

DETERMINATION- AFTER TESTICULAR CANCER-- BABY !!

This is what the determination one needs to fight cancer. i recently read about a man who had vasectomy, then one fine day when he was lifting some weight he had excruciating pain in his groin, later when he went to the Dr. after many tests it was confirmed as cancer in one of his testicle, which was quite big too! 2 years after this surgery, he asked the surgeon to reverse his vasectomy procedure, then he did have a child !! he says it is this child who gives him inspiration to continue with his life, though he has seen close friends & members of his family dying of cancer ! well death is inevitable, so why think of it each day & cry.

One thing we all should remember that we all have our good days & bad days. So make the most of your good days, during those few bad days, try to watch some comedy, as you all know that laughter is the best medicine, it makes you feel a lot better when you can laugh to your heart's content, why not watch Tom & Jerry, which both my husband & I love watching !! then think how imaginative the creators are of this series.

Remember that one's mind plays a vital role in one's life. So if you think that you're going to be a winner in life, you'll be a winner come what may.don't let those small slips that come in your way let you down, that should make you all the more determined to fight it out all the more. Above all never let anyone pity you nor pity yourself, as that is the worst you can ever expect, draw your inspirations from others around you, how they're able to handle their lives with those beautiful smile.You know the saying, when you smile another smiles soon there will be miles & miles of smile, just because you smiled ! so why not start that smile mile !

ps- I'm not a Dr. , only a survivor, this is mainly to make survivors positive with my thoughts, also by sighting how others have faced this disease & come out as winners, as we all need such inspirations to take us through, don't we ?