15 Psychological Tricks to Make the World See You Differently
You don’t need to pay big bucks for a
psychiatrist to improve your social relations and your mind’s balance,
you just need the right knowledge and right habits. Here are 15 very
wise psychological tricks that you can employ on yourself and on other
people to help you lead a better and more successful life. These tricks
will show you how to be liked, how to calm people down and how to calm
yourself down. You’ll be amazed by how easy this all is!
1. How to know who likes who
1. How to know who likes who
Notice that when a group of people start
laughing at something, they each make eye contact with the person they
either feel closest to, or wish to be closest to. Look out for this.
2. How to calm your nerves


Your brain is wired to associate eating
with safety. Therefore, if you are doing something that makes you
nervous, chew gum. This will make your brain feel as if you are eating,
and will soothe your nerves.
3. How to destroy someone's anger
People justify their anger if they also
stir your anger in response to theirs. Instead, if you behave calmly in
the face of their anger, they will later feel guilty and ashamed. They
may even apologize the next day.
4. How to make people speak more clearly to you

If someone has just said something to you,
but you don’t understand what they mean or want more from them, keep
eye-contact and keep silent. They will instinctively understand that
they need to say more.
5. How to alter your own mood

If you think you should feel happy, or
you’d like to feel happy, just make the biggest smile you can. Your
emotions will follow your expressions’ lead.
6. How to avoid sounding under confident
Whenever you say or write ‘I think’, ‘I
believe’ or phrases of this kind, it will sound to other people like you
are unsure of yourself. These phrases are already understood from the
fact that you are talking, so get used to not using them anymore.
7. How to control a job interview


If you behave with your interviewer as if
you are old friends, you’ll naturally exude this sentiment and the
interviewer will infectiously start to feel the same way about you.
8. How to make people excited to see you

Have you noticed how dogs always greet us
with great excitement? Somehow this always makes you excited to see them
too. You can apply this in your social relations. Greet people
excitedly, and you’ll start to notice that they become happy to see you
too in future. Charismatic people always do this.
9. How to successfully request a favor



You can put psychological pressure on someone to do a favor, if they have already turned down one or two big favors first.
10. How to change stress into exhilaration

Trick your body into believing that a
situation is not stressful by seeing it as a challenge. Because stress
and exhilaration have the same bodily symptoms, such as a fast heart
rate and heavy breathing, the ruse will work and you’ll feel full of
energy.
11. How to inspire people’s respect

People always seek a leader to follow, and
they do this by seeing who looks like they know what they are doing. You
don’t have to be brilliant, just do what you are doing with certainty
and they will follow your lead.
12. How to make customers nicer to you

Nobody ever wants to see their own face as
they behave disrespectfully to another. So, if you work in customer
service, place a mirror behind you. Thus, all your customers will be
able to see themselves and will try to be decent.
13. How to deter someone’s personal attack
If you believe that someone is about to
single you out among a group, try and sit close to them. They will lack
the security of the pack, and they will not be as likely to make their
attack upon you.
14. How to make a good first date
If you take someone you’ve just met to an
exciting place or event, they’ll always associate you with the positive
feelings they enjoyed that day.
15. How to make people like you more
psychology

Make it a habit to notice someone’s eye
color when you meet them for the first time. The other person will enjoy
the greater eye contact you are giving them and will like you more.
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