Pediatrician with over 35 years of experience shares 3 parenting lessons Indian parents can learn from Swiss families
When it comes to raising children, every country has its own unique way. However, one thing is certain that some parenting styles stand out better than others, and this provide valuable lessons for parents everywhere.
Recently, Dr. Ravi Malik, a senior pediatrician with over 35 years of experience shared a few observations from Switzerland. The doctor shared the simple yet meaningful ways parents can help children grow with confidence, independence and emotional security.
Swiss families encourage independence from an early age
One of the most noticeable things for Dr. Ravi was how Swiss families encourage independence from an early age in children. He observed that in many places children as young as 6 years old could be seen going home after school on their own.
This is a mere example that shows that children are gradually taught about their responsibilities and are made aware. They get to handle small tasks on their own. For Indian parents this is like a reminder that children need-age-appropriated independence.
Swiss parents never scold their children in public places
Dr. Ravi says that parents in Switzerland are very mindful about how they discipline their children, especially in public places. The pediatrician noticed that parents there avoid scolding, shouting or publicly embarrassing children.
They also don’t name and shame them. Instead of all this, they focus on guiding children with respect and patience.
The way parents discipline can leave a big impact on children. When children feel criticized in public, they feel ashamed, and thus barely understand the mistake. On the other hand, respectful communication is what teaches them lessons.
Kids are encouraged to engage in outdoor play
In recent years, kids are indulging in screens so much that they rarely spend time outside. But in Switzerland, parents encourage kids to spend time outdoors for at leas 2 hours, says Dr. Ravi. Whether it’s snowy, sunny or cold outside, Swiss parents make sure physical activities are a part of their child’s daily routine.
Experiencing nature and exploring new things also helps children build confidence, and social skills from an early age.
The goal here is not to copy another country’s parenting style, but to understand the values behind it. The Dr.'s observations highlight some important parenting principles that can benefit families everywhere.
Of course, I do understand that due to security reasons, we make sure that children don't return home alone from school. In Switzerland, the crime rate is low, less population than in India. But still certain points are worth following like outdoor activities daily, never shouting or criticizing children in public, as it leaves a deep scar in them.