The 9 Signs of Hidden Depression

Depression, as many already know, is a very serious disorder that completely disrupts one’s daily routine, and is recognized as a clinical disorder by all professionals. However, there is still a negative social taboo surrounding depression, which causes those who have it - and there are quite a few who do - to try to hide it, instead of involving the people close to them in order to try to find a solution.

With the following 9 signs, you can identify when others - your relatives, friends or family - are trying to hide depression, and it is important that you recognize them because only then can you provide them with the help they need.

9 Signs that a person is dealing with hidden depression 

1. They tend to speak "philosophically" 

People suffering from repressed depression tend to talk a lot about philosophical issues and are dragged into talking in abstract sentences, in ways you haven’t noticed before. Suddenly, every little conversation with them takes a turn toward talking about the meaning of life. They speak sentences that aren’t entirely clear when one can understand that they are searching for the meaning of life and tend toward "self-flagellation" in a different and more dramatic way than usual. Raising subjects of conversation such as life and death, the burden of life and the burden they take upon themselves, should definitely raise a red flag and make you understand that the person sitting in front of you is depressed.

2. Distancing and constantly seeking excuses 

People who develop hidden depression tend to look for excuses to hide their true feelings and the sadness they suffer from and put on a “mask” of happiness so that others don’t sense their hurting. In most cases, the more time you spend with a person who is hiding their depression the more clear it will become that they are depressed. Therefore, people who don’t want others to know about their feelings, tend to distance themselves and spend less time with others, as well as invent different excuses to avoid social events.

3. Psychosomatic disorders 

People who develop depression tend to complain of heart pain, pressure in the legs and hands, difficulty breathing, headaches, and toothaches and other such clinical symptoms. Usually, when such people are examined, their physical and health condition is found to be perfectly normal. This unexplained sensitivity and these feelings of pain indicate an unstable inner state and the development of psychosomatic disorders - disorders caused by mental factors. There is a rather vicious cycle of depression that leads to physical pains that cause it to worsen until things become clearer and one understands that the person is depressed.

4. Sloppy appearance 

A depressive mood tends to affect a person’s appearance, whether or not they want it to. If someone around you stops suddenly keeping the most basic rules of hygiene, doesn’t keep their house clean, goes out with inappropriate clothing and generally, their appearance seems grossly sloppy - even if their overall behavior isn’t indicative if depression - you still have reason to question whether or not everything is okay.

5. Have difficulty controlling their emotions and don’t react appropriately to situations 

People who disguise their depression are more exposed than others to emotional influences on their normal behavior, and this is certainly reflected in their daily conduct. For example, you can notice that a person who doesn’t usually get teary from movies suddenly bursts into tears from just about anything, or alternatively a person who doesn’t get annoyed much suddenly swears rudely and is overcome with road rage when driving. Conversely, things can go the other way: the depressed can become apathetic, stop expressing their opinions and wishes, suddenly agree with everything they have been told, don’t respond when insulted, and so on and so forth, this behavior should put up a red flag. 

6. Demonstration of excessive happiness 

Another sign of hidden depression that is related to the inability to respond appropriately to different situations is the attempt by people who have it to hide their true feeling behind a mask of positivity, sometimes even overly exaggerated. As a rule, those who try hard to hide depression tend to look happy and carefree, but they do so in such a way that it's easy to see that things aren’t as they seem and that they are actually hiding bad feelings.

7. They often “chew the mental cud” 

When people are depressed, they tend to become obsessed with certain things. For example, in the search for solutions to their predicament, they begin to take on obsessive-compulsive thoughts, creating the illusion that these repeated reflections are the way to find the answer, although in practice they have no real answer. It is not difficult to notice that a friend or person close to you “chews the mental cud”: they often ponder out loud, their mind is distracted and they keep talking about the same problem, but don’t try to act on a solution at all .

8. A sense of continuous exhaustion 

One of the most common symptoms of depression is the feeling of prolonged exhaustion, and when a person tries to disguise their depression, this feeling is only exacerbated. Although not everyone who is coping with this disorder suffers from fatigue, it is a very common issue, which challenges many people who suffer from depression and try to hide it. If you notice that someone close to you finds it difficult to cope with routine tasks, forgets information, gets tired easily, even if they sleep well at night, you should try to find out if there’s something deeper going on.

9. Development of irregular eating habits 

 Irregular eating habits develop in a person coping with depression for two main reasons: as a form of coping with the problem, or as a side effect associated with a lack of self-concern, as in the section on sloppy appearance. Overeating or lack of eating are obvious symptoms of depression, which should be noticed. Overeating is often linked to a person's desire to be filled somehow from the inside, and thus make themselves happy with something external, while non-eating may indicate feelings such as lack of desire and interest. 

How to help a person that has developed hidden depression 

If you notice that one of your loved ones or someone close to you has developed one or more of the symptoms that we mentioned here, the best solution is to talk to them first and offer help, try to talk about the things that are bothering them and remove the masks. In such a conversation it is important not to try to minimize the value of the person's problems or joke about them in order to ease the situation, but take them seriously - try to genuinely help them, by really touching on the problems they’re dealing with and not with empty words like "cheer up," “just relax,” or “stop acting like that." In any case, if the person in front of you refuses to talk, don’t try to force them, but keep an eye on their behavior. Be attentive, and let the person dealing with the problem feel that you are here for them.

This is only for your information, kindly take the advice of your doctor for food, medicines, exercises and so on.   

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Short Period Causes: 10 Potential Reasons Your Monthly Flow Was Shorter Than Normal

Most things in life are uncertain, but when it comes to your period, you can usually count on its friendly appearance once a month. What constitutes a “normal” period is pretty individualized, but what happens when your period is shorter than what's normal for you?

Shorter periods can be NBD (if your period lasts two to three days, and it’s always lasted two to three days, no biggie), but it’s important to pay attention to your cycle, and note any changes, says Alyssa Dweck, MD, an ob-gyn and author of The Complete A to Z for Your V.

After all, the length of your period is largely determined by hormonal factors, says Lakeisha Richardson, MD, an ob-gyn based in Greenville, Mississippi. That means everything from medications to underlying health conditions can throw off your cycle. Some of those causes are totally benign, but others are best ruled-out (or caught) early. We’ll get into those soon, but first, there are a few other factors to consider when it comes to irregular periods.

For one, changes in your cycle length can sometimes be a cause for concern, says Caitlin McCarthy, MD, an ob-gyn with Axia Women’s Health. "Periods that are too frequent  may be a sign of a structural abnormality [of the female reproductive system] or hormonal imbalance, and periods that are too infrequent can be related to an undiagnosed pregnancy, hormonal imbalances that affect ovulation, or nutritional concerns.”

Light bleeding is usually nothing to worry about, but if menstrual bleeding becomes heavy enough to cause distress or you’re concerned about your fertility, it’s time to check in with a doctor, adds Dr. McCarthy.

Curious what you’re dealing with? Ahead, doctors shed light on 10 common reasons your period might go from six days to, say, three suddenly, and when you should see a doctor.

What is a normal menstrual cycle?

Most women’s cycles last 21 to 35 days, counting from day one of one cycle to day one of the next cycle, and their periods last five to seven days on average, says Dr. Dweck. “I recommend seeing your gyno if your flow is persistently or newly varied from usual,” she adds.

FYI, "cycle length" is defined as the number of days from the start of one period to the start of the next and “duration of flow” as the number of days of actual bleeding, says Dr. McCarthy. “Both can vary from month to month and are typically nothing to worry about unless it persists over time,” she reiterates. 

How much you bleed per cycle is subjective, but if it’s not disrupting your physical, emotional, and social well-being, it is typically considered “normal,” says Sameena Rahman, MD, an ob-gyn at Center For Gynecology and Cosmetics.

What causes a shorter period?

You’ve switched birth control.

If your period is suddenly breaking pattern, consider if you've started or changed birth control methods. “The pill might lessen the length of flow,” says Dr. Dweck. “Most birth control pills and rings, like the Annovera vaginal ring, lead to lighter flow,” adds Mary Jane Minkin, MD, a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology and reproductive sciences at Yale Medical School. “The combined hormonal contraceptives contain a good amount of progestins—synthetic progesterone—which limit the build-up of a lot of tissue lining the uterus,” she explains. As a result, there’s less of a flow when it’s go time. Progestin-only IUDs “allow a very limited buildup,” Dr. Minkin says, and many women have a lighter flow or even no period when they have one of those implanted.

Also, there could be slight hormonal differences in generic versions that could affect your cycle length, so make sure to check the packaging.

You’re on a certain type of medication.

Beyond the birth control pill, certain medicines could also affect your period, thanks to the chemicals in them. “NSAIDs [like Advil, Naprosyn, ibuprofen, etc.], antidepressants, thyroid medications, and steroids might shorten flow,” Dr. Dweck says.

The way each of these medications lighten your flow varies slightly. With NSAIDs, “the idea is that the NSAID reduces the number of inflammation compounds called prostaglandins, which in turn can lessen the amount of bleeding because prostaglandins affect the blood vessels in the inner lining of the uterus,” explains women’s health expert Jennifer Wider, MD.

Not sure if the meds you’ve taken are messing with your flow? “Ruling out other causes of change in flow and taking a good medical history might lead to diagnosing medication as the cause of menstrual change," Dr. Dweck says.  

You have polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS).

PCOS is a genetic condition where women overproduce amounts of male hormones, which can suppress ovulation and lead to changes in menstruation, says Dr. Rahman. “Women with PCOS will have a long history of irregular cycles,” adds Dr. Richardson. “They may also have months when they don't have a menstrual cycle at all because of their imbalanced hormone levels.”

If you’re suffering from PCOS, you’ll likely also experience cysts on your ovaries, hirsutism (or excessive hairiness), acne, obesity, and infertility, she says.

PCOS is not a medical emergency, but seeing your ob-gyn as soon as possible to prescribe medication can help minimize the symptoms, as untreated PCOS can lead to future health conditions such as metabolic dysfunction, diabetes, cardiovascular disease, thyroid dysfunction, and sleep apnea, adds Dr. Rahman.

You’re suffering from primary ovarian insufficiency.

Primary ovarian insufficiency (previously referred to as premature ovarian failure) occurs when women have a loss of normal ovarian function prior to 40 years old, explains Dr. Richardson. If your ovaries aren’t working correctly, they won’t produce the right amounts of estrogen or release eggs when they’re supposed to, which could lead to shortened and irregular cycles, she says.

Primary ovarian insufficiency typically shows up around age 27 but occurs in one in 250 women by age 35 and one in 100 women by age 40, says Dr. Rahman. The most common symptoms are infertility and amenorrhea (a loss of periods), and it’s typically diagnosed through blood tests, she explains.

If you think you may have primary ovarian insufficiency and want to get pregnant in the future, talk to your doc about getting tested as well as your fertility options.

You have uterine scarring.

Scarring in the uterus can lead to shorter periods. This is known as Asherman Syndrome, a rare condition that most often occurs in women who have had multiple dilation and curettage (D&C) procedures, says Dr. Richardson. D&C's are often used to empty the uterus following miscarriage, as an abortion method, and to treat certain gynecological conditions.

“Women who have Asherman Syndrome have shorter cycles or amenorrhea because only the areas of the uterus that are not scarred are capable of bleeding. The more scarring that is involved, the less bleeding will occur.”

 Other symptoms (aside from a short period) can vary based on the degree of scarring, but you may also develop pelvic pain during your period which is caused by the obstruction of the menstrual flow due to scarring, explains Dr. McCarthy. Additionally, uterine scarring can be associated with infertility or recurrent pregnancy loss, she adds.

This condition would be diagnosed by hysteroscopy, says Dr. Richardson, and the adhesions (or scars) would have to be removed surgically in order for your flow to return to normal and to improve your ability to conceive, if desired.

You’re breastfeeding.

“Most women who are breastfeeding exclusively will not have a cycle while they are breastfeeding,” says Dr. Richardson. “Breastfeeding could delay ovulation for as long as 18 months, because the body is suppressing ovulation hormones by producing prolactin, alpha-lactalbumin, and lactose synthesis.” A normal cycle will return only when you stop or decrease the amount of breastfeeding, but even then, it could be shorter than normal due to the fluctuating hormones.

You have an overactive thyroid.

Your thyroid can actually affect your period: “The thyroid gland is regulated in the pituitary-hypothalamus axis of the brain, as are the hormones that regulate ovulation and menstruation,” says Dr. Dweck. “When one aspect of the axis is disturbed, so might be other aspects.”

In other words, the hormones that play a major role in regulating periods are produced in the same region of the brain as thyroid regulating hormones, says Dr. McCarthy. “If too many thyroid hormones are produced, they provide feedback to the hypothalamus to slow down production, which also inhibits period regulating hormones.” As a result, women with hyperthyroidism may have infrequent periods or amenorrhea (a lack of periods), she adds.

 Other indications of an overactive thyroid issue can include appetite and weight changes, difficulty with temperature regulation, hair changes, feelings of anxiety, and heart palpitations, according to Dr. Dweck. If you think you might have a thyroid disorder, talk to your doc about getting tested.

You have implantation bleeding.

Implantation is an early part of the pregnancy process when an embryo (i.e. fertilized egg) burrows into your uterine lining. It’s possible to bleed a little when that happens. And, if the timing lines up with your period, it’s understandable that you might think you’re having a period when you’re actually not.

“It can be difficult to tell the difference between implantation bleeding and a short period for some women because implantation can occur roughly six to 12 days after conception, which is often when a woman would expect her period,” Dr. Wider says. “The symptoms can look the same.” If there’s a chance you might be pregnant and you’re not sure what’s going on down there, take a pregnancy test to help rule pregnancy in or out, she says.

You’re really stressed out.

Stress can screw with just about everything in your life, so it’s hardly shocking that it can mess with your cycle, too. “High levels of stress can cause an increase in the production of [stress hormone] cortisol which in turn can cause a disruption in the way our bodies function normally,” Dr. Wider says.

Under normal (read: non-frazzled) times, your brain’s hypothalamus produces chemicals that trigger your pituitary gland to signal your ovaries to release estrogen and progesterone, she explains. “With an increase in cortisol from stress, that axis can get messed up and the menstrual cycle can become irregular,” Dr. Wider says.

“The less estrogen, the less stimulation of the lining of the uterus, so less bleeding,” Dr. Minkin adds.

When it comes to stress management and getting your period back on track, it’s important to find what works for *you*, whether that’s  exercise , massage, acupuncture, or journaling, says Dr. McCarthy. “Don’t be afraid to speak up because stress is a part of life, and we all need help through it, so find a friend, family member, or therapist to help with [individual] coping techniques.”

You’re in perimenopause.

“As women age, their cycle may become shorter—especially as they get closer to menopause,” says Dr. Richardson. Perimenopause, the time before menopause, when your body starts transitioning hormonally, typically starts in a woman's 40s, but  can start as early as the 30s. However, the average age of perimenopause is 47 and symptoms may last up to 10 years, adds Dr. Rahman.

“During that time, women may have shorter cycles or may not have a cycle at all." This is all perfectly normal, and there’s no need to seek medical attention during this time, says says Dr. Richardson. But if you’re concerned, especially about your fertility, a visit to your doc certainly can’t hurt.

If you’re in perimenopause, you may also experience hot flashes, night sweats, sleep disturbances, mood swings, irritability, fatigue, weight gain, and decreased libido, says Dr. McCarthy. Additional symptoms include brain fog, depression, anxiety, dry skin, joint pain, and vaginal burning or dryness from the lack of estrogen, adds Dr. Rahman.

When To See A Doctor

A lack of period at all for more than three months when not on hormonal medications, prolonged bleeding, erratic bleeding, or heavy bleeding soaking more than two pads per hour for two consecutive hours are all red flags and should be discussed with your provider, says Dr. McCarthy. Light bleeding is rarely something to worry about, but if menstrual bleeding is heavy enough to cause distress or interfere with daily life, it is too much, she adds.

Additionally, if your period persistently becomes less or more frequent over the course of a few months, or your flow is much heavier or lighter than usual, it’s time to check in with your doc, adds Dr. Rahman. “If it’s an isolated cycle, then you can monitor, but if your period starts to cause distress, then please see a doctor where they will do a complete history and physical exam, possibly draw blood, and may also perform an ultrasound,” she explains. “Women, particularly women of color, should advocate for themselves with any bleeding issue to ensure they are appropriately heard by [their] doctor and that [they] receive the appropriate management.”

 

This is only for your information, kindly take the advice of your doctor for food, medicines, exercises and so on.   

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